Have you ever finished up something and felt such a relief? Maybe you had been doing something for a long time, a job you hated or a friendship that was toxic or fake? Then after you finally get rid of it, you felt free? Felt like the proverbial “monkey was off your back?” I have had this feeling before and I have friends who have as well. It’s amazing how you can get into a “rut” doing something you despise or being involved with someone who you just feel is not who they pretend to be…you just keep dragging this thing out, maybe because you feel you must for financial reasons in the case of a bad job or you hate to hurt someones feelings in the case of a bad friendship. In either case it’s not good for the job, the friend or yourself to stick around.
In job situations sometimes people MUST stick it out, no matter how bad they hate it or how bad it is for their health. That is so detrimental to that person’s mental and physical health. They take being treated badly, being taken for granted and being paid a lousy wage just to put food on the table. Or the employer is just a delusional psych job that thinks they are the best thing since sliced bread, and that by allowing you to work for them they are somehow doing you a favor and expect you to kiss their feet for giving you a paycheck after a long hard week on the job? It’s an all around bad situation. I know many people stuck in jobs they hate, but have no other options other than to stick it out…for now. I know waitresses who rely on tips…and who have clients who are too idiotic to leave decent tips or make you jump through hoops to get a decent tip…guess what people? TIPS are part of most jobs that are service oriented! DUH! Giving that tip to the waitress doesn’t make you kind…it’s part of the deal when dining out! Unless of course you get crappy service, then of course you may have a valid reason not to tip.
I am lucky in that I have found a job I love and that works out with my physical limitations! The supervisors I have are amazing! They treat the employees very well and with respect. The co workers are great, everyone helps each other out. Working any job when having a chronic illness, especially one involving alot of pain, is very difficult. On days when you can barely bring yourself to get out of bed…but you must force yourself up and to work. You take your meds and you just push yourself to get to your job and to do it to the best of your ability…even with the pain and the brain-fog related to the pain medications. Yes, it is hard indeed. But we do it, because we have to or because it fullfills us to be out in the world, doing something we enjoy. I am so grateful that I am able to work outside the home in a job that I love and can physically do…I’m lucky to be able to push myself to do it.
I hate the days where I am in so much pain I can’t even force myself to get up, much less work. Those days suck. They make you feel so pitiful and helpless. I have many of these days each month, but thankfully not every single day…I can usually “suck it up” enough to get up and get stuff done…with the help of my pharmaceutical suitcase…lol.
Well, I hope everyone out there in cyberland is having a glorious day! The weather is awesome! Slide open those windows and air the house out! (Some people REALLY need to do this….ever walked into a house that smelled like stinky garbage? ewww)…
“Make plans, but allow for changes!”